Women of today listen up. I’m here to tell you to throw your preconceived notions of how to find love out the window. You are going about it in all the wrong ways. You’re so hung up on finding a deep and everlasting soulmate but all you do is end up seeing their behinds as they run for the door. Let me ask you, when was the last time you had a deep and emotional moment with a man? And I’m not talking about the Amazon delivery guy with your “special” package. I’m talking about that connection. The spark. The sizzle. The speaking without saying a single word, looks.